It’s a new year! And, if you’re like many people, you might be reflecting on 2022 and setting new resolutions and goals for 2023. Interestingly, the practice of making resolutions dates back to ancient times, when people would make vows to the gods at the start of the new year to bring good fortune in the year ahead. Now, it’s become common practice to make promises to ourselves or set goals at the beginning of a new year to improve some aspect of our lives.

While this can be a great way to make positive changes in your life, it’s important to approach goal-setting in a way that is healthy and sustainable. This is especially true when it comes to our mental health, which can be deeply affected by the way we set and pursue our goals.

One of the keys to successful goal-setting is to make sure your goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound. This helps to ensure that your goals are clear and achievable, rather than vague or unrealistic. It can also be helpful to break larger goals down into smaller, more manageable steps. Focusing on one day at a time, one task, and one moment instead of looking at the whole year also helps to make achieving your goals more enjoyable and less overwhelming.

However, it’s important not to get so caught up in the pursuit of achieving the goals that you lose sight of the lessons in the process. It’s okay to make mistakes or have setbacks along the way. What we may preserve as a mistake or setback can be a valuable opportunity to learn and grow. It’s important to be kind to yourself and recognize that progress takes time. Remember to celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem, and take breaks when needed.

It’s also important to prioritize your mental health when setting goals. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or anxious, it may be helpful to take a step back and reassess your goals. It’s okay to adjust your goals, practice relaxation, and perhaps speak with a therapist. It’s important to remember that self-care is a crucial part of achieving your goals and maintaining good mental health.

There are many different ways to prioritize your mental health when setting goals. Some strategies include:

• Setting goals that align with your values and priorities
• Being realistic about what you can achieve and how much time it will take
• Setting aside time for relaxation and self-care
• Seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist
• Being flexible and willing to adjust your goals as needed

It’s no doubt that goal-setting can be a powerful tool for making positive changes in your life. Prioritizing your mental health is key to achieving your goals and living a fulfilling life. Remember to be kind to yourself, set specific and achievable goals, and prioritize self-care and relaxation. And if you need additional support from a mental health professional I’m here to help. Just give my office a call at 818-806-9170. With these strategies, you are well on your way to setting and achieving your goals while also taking care of your mental well-being. May you have a happy and healthy New Year!